In Brother Ivers’s lecture about cross-cultural students in
the American classroom (watch his lecture here: https://video.byui.edu/media/06+Cross-Cultural+Students+in+the+Classroom/0_r2lcaswt),
he pointed out that when we have students who come from different cultures than
we do, if their behavior ever strikes us as disrespectful or disruptive or odd
in some way, we should never jump to conclusions. Chances are, their behavior
is the result of them having different cultural paradigms than us, so to them,
their behavior wasn’t disrespectful or disruptive at all!
As a future TESOL teacher, this concept is of crucial
importance, since all of my students will be from different cultures than I am.
I must keep an open mind, and not judge my students by my personal cultural
paradigms, understanding that theirs are different than mine.
I don’t think this means that I should let any and all
behavior be allowed in my classroom, though. If I did that, I think it would be
different to foster a cohesive and functional learning environment. There do
need to be classroom rules and standards. But when a student does something
that seems inappropriate, rather than assuming that the student is misbehaving,
my automatic assumption ought to be that their behavior stems from a different
cultural paradigm. Then, if the behavior is something that is truly
inappropriate in American culture, I should use the moment as a teaching
opportunity. Instead of judging them for “misbehaving,” I should teach them
what constitutes appropriate behavior in America, the country they are trying
to live in now, to help them start to fit in better in their new home.
To me, this is the implication of Brother Ivers’s advice not
to judge the behavior of people from other cultures: I should give them the
benefit of the doubt, but I shouldn’t necessarily allow any behavior in my
classroom. I should teach them the cultural norms of their new home, so that
they can succeed living in America.
What if they don't plan to move and you teach online and they keep living in their own country?
ReplyDeleteWhich European countries have you visited?
It's definitely true that classroom management issues are very different in an online setting. That's part of why I have no interest in teaching online. I prefer the face-to-face interaction of the physical classroom.
ReplyDeleteI have lived in England, Italy, and Germany, and I've also visited Ireland, Scotland, Spain, France, and Switzerland.